Those things I feel...:
I just read this post in a friends journal. She is having a hard time with love. I say give it up, but hey it's her life. Then she said something that gets me with some guys. The “kind of” boyfriends. I just had to say something about the subject. Too good to pass up.
How do you become a kind boyfriend? I tell you how by being an ass and lazy.
I mean Gods!!! Come on!!! There is only so much a girl can do. Get of your ass and call, go over to just say hi. Just SOMETHING!!! A kind of boyfriend is such a waist of time. Oh and don't get me started about this guy she broke up with. I think his name is Tony. *goes to check* yeah Tony. The things I have heard from my friend Dax, and from her. He was a complete ass. Now there was a perfect example of a "kind of" boyfriend.
Okay this is what happeneds...
She goes out of her way to go out and see him. To spend time with him Seeing they liked lived in different states. *Dax...Desi correct me if I am wrong on some of these things* So she lives in Utah *that much I DO know* he is like in Co or something. I know it was a C state, but any ways. She does these things for him. And in return he is an ass. He treats her like crap online, on the phone he ignores her, and get this...When he has a chance to come out to see her. He fucking turns it down. They never and I mean never get to see each other. It had been *again Desi if I am wrong put in a post* like I don't know months since he has seen her, and he turns down a free trip. Not like he is working, or is raising a child like she IS. He don't even really have a job he is like a carny or something. Had the month off... blows her off. Oh there is LOVE.
So lets see here, She calls him *every time I am sure*, and talks to him online trying to tell him her feelings, and goes out of her way *even thought she has a child and job* to see him. Yeah honey...better off with out the fucker. I say don't look back. You did all you could. Like I said there is only so much you can do. Doesn't sound like he even wanted to be in a relationship. If he HAD he would of done SOMETHING to at least meet you half way in the relationship. He would of done SOMETHING As I can see it you gave and gave. Now move on...
He doesn’t deserve you. You need someone to love you and cherish you. You need someone who will at least show you he loves you. You need a guy who takes action. This is to ALL of you kind of's. If you are one or are dating one. Something needs to be done. Take action. Guys if you love her God damn show her. Girls stop giving, and start doing NOTHING . That's right I said NOTHING. You have given your all they know where to find you if they love you. If they truly love you and want to keep you I say stop. Let them do something for once. So stop waiting by the phone *Not going there tonight*, stop going out of your way *spending tons of money* for him *such as driving across state Desi what were you thinking?*, stop everything and let him come to you. If he doesn't kick his ass. He doesn't deserve you.
Okay I think I am done for the night. For those of you who are old friends and do so love the things on my mind I will try to post here as much as I can. There will be one post a week at least.
*Remember...your better then him...you don't NEED him...now go and have a drink*
~*You know you love me*~